I start with the WHOIS info
http://escrow-fraud.pgardner.net/whois. ... change.com and see that this site was created on 08-Dec-2005 which means the site is very yound (however has been around long as far as scams go.)
Then I looked at the image gallery I have capturing the images of the various sites as I kept seeing repeats of the same design layout and if you check
http://escrow-fraud.pgardner.net/images/sites/ and more specifically
http://escrow-fraud.pgardner.net/images/sites/Layout10/ you will see that this layout has been used more than once and all sites have been a fraud.
Finally I have been looking at fraud sites like these for going on 3 years now and I have learned very quickly how to spot them.
You will probably get NO more emails from your buyer, and if anything they will only be to explain why there is yet another delay in your payment. That way they hope to put of your complaints as long as possible to keep their site running. Apparently this one has done a good job at it, as they have been around since early December 2005.
I will garuntee that ANYONE that who "Claims" to have a good relationship with safedealexchange.com will be working for and with those that are perpetrating this scam.